top of page
  • Writer's pictureOlga

How to Be Assertive Without Feeling Guilty?

Asserting yourself without being aggressive is an art form that should be performed gracefully but also precisely. Nothing you say should cause any confusion. Every word should be defined and outline your needs, vital rights, and unassailable limits.

When it comes to asserting yourself, it's important to keep in mind that communication is a two-way street. While you want to make sure you are expressing yourself clearly and confidently, it's also important to listen actively to the other person's response.

  • Saying "no" when others are expecting a "yes" is not a betrayal. It's stating your position so that others can follow suit and get to know you better as a person.

  • Say "no" without fear or embarrassment at the appropriate time. People who care about you will accept it with dignity, and they won't be surprised because they know you. And those who oppose it or feel betrayed have only two choices: accept it or flee through the back door of your heart.

  • A timely "no" can save lives, particularly your own. It will keep you out of situations that would have put you in the throes of unhappiness, the shackles of selfish demands, and the suffering that we should all be able to avoid.

Here are some additional tips to help you assert yourself effectively:
  • Use "I" statements to express your feelings and needs, rather than placing blame on the other person.

  • Be specific and concrete about what you are asking for or what you need from the other person.

  • Maintain a calm and respectful tone, even if the other person becomes defensive or aggressive.

  • Validate the other person's perspective, even if you don't agree with it. This can help to defuse any tension and keep the conversation productive.

  • Practice assertiveness regularly in your everyday life, so that it becomes a natural and comfortable way of communicating for you.

Being authentic and true to oneself is not always easy, but it is essential for personal growth and happiness. When we try to hide who we really are or are embarrassed about our true selves, we limit our potential and hold ourselves back from experiencing all that life has to offer. However, when we have the courage to face our fears and embrace our true selves, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities and opportunities. This can be a difficult journey, but it is one that is well worth taking. Remember to always keep your head held high, your eyes open, and your heart happy as you navigate through this process of self-discovery and growth.


If you're looking for a guide THROUGH A TRANSFORMATIONAL JOURNEY OF SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT AND GROWTH ANCHORED IN PRACTICAL APPLICATION, I invite you to join this membership journey of devotion into your Highest Self.

Join us to step into your Highest Self!

Imagine having ultimate trust in yourself and the Universe, and know that everything is always working out for you.

Why tell you this?

Because we know you're meant for something more....

You're meant for something bigger....

And we want to help you do it.

So today I’d like to invite you to join our new membership, created by my incredible Co-Creator Ina and I!

It’s called the Highest Self Activation Vault, or simply 'THE VAULT', and in it, there are 3 different levels to meet you where ever you currently are on your journey:

  • Level 1 - Reawaken

  • Level 2 - Deep Shift

  • Level 3 - Fully Integrated


If you're ready to heal and release the past, shift your mindset, and step into the most confident version of yourself.

If you want to have deeper support from a truly passionate Coach that has proven over and over again to truly help people transform their mindset and their lives.

I invite you to book a FREE Personal Empowerment Session where we go through the things that are holding you back, which are always our limiting beliefs and thinking patterns. ⁠<<HERE>>



Master Transformative Coach & Trainer

Olga is a Master Transformative Coach & Trainer of NLP, Hypnosis, EFT, Neural Energetic Encoding, and Life and Success Coaching. She is also a Life Purpose Life, Meditation Teacher/Practitioner, Reiki Teacher/Master, and Chakra & Energy Healer. In her own coaching business with her 1 on 1 client, her mission and passion are to help her clients create a more positive and supportive internal environment that empowers them to overcome challenges, achieve their goals, and live a joyful, fulfilling life in alignment with their spiritual path. Together, they embark on a transformational journey of identifying and replacing those sneaky little patterns of thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that have been holding them back for too long. Using a range of powerful techniques, such as affirmations, visualization, hypnosis, NLP, and Neural Energetic Encoding, Olga helps her clients tap into their inner power and break free from negative thought patterns! Then, they also work on balancing and protecting their energy from external influences. Olga teaches her clients to say no to anything that doesn't serve their highest good and to create a life that truly resonates with their hearts and Soul. Olga powerfully combines Subconscious Mind rewiring, Universal Law, energy work, and conscious manifesting to create powerful and permanent shifts in her clients' lives.

11 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All


bottom of page